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Milestones define most of our lives:
The moment I met Ashley.
The day we got married.
The day she walked into my work to surprise me with the news of being pregnant.
The day Alexis was born.
I will never forget any of these moments for the rest of my life. All of them amazing and all of them transformational. Yet, as I lay Lexi in her crib last night I couldn’t help but start to cry. “I can’t believe my baby is one already!” I thought to myself. Stepping out of her room and closing the door I was reminded that although life is defined my many milestones it is the little things in between the significant moments that matter so much more.
Alexis you are light of my life and I am so blessed to be your daddy. I love the way you laugh and giggle. I love watching you play with your doggy. I love how excited you get when you see animals or when we step out into the wind. I love that you love books. I love your little voice and your “wow” statements. I love you when you are sick and when you are healthy. I love you when you are cranky and throwing a Benji-esque temper tantrum. I love you when you are happy and playing. I love you when you are asleep and when you are awake. I love you when you puke on my face or when you poop in the bathtub. I love you when you are healthy and when you are sick. I love you when play with your friends. I love how much you love to watch Dora and Yo Gabba Gabba. I love you so much more than I think I could ever communicate. Thank you for letting me be your daddy!
I hope you have an amazing first birthday! Someday when you are older and read this I hope you know that your mom and I love you for all the things that make you uniquely you already. We love you so much and are so proud to be your parents. You have had an amazing first year full of great memories and lots of fun and laughs. I pray that the rest of your life will be filled with the same.
Happy Birthday Alexis!

A few weeks ago I posted that someone had been stealing Bibles from the store. As a person who cares deeply about grace and second chances, this has been a tough road to travel. What would happen if I caught the person? What would happen if they stole again? What would I do?
All of these questions were answered recently when the person I saw steal Bibles from our store return again to steal more Bibles. To protect the person and our store I can’t go into any details, but the situation has come to a close except I don’t feel any closure. Second chances are easily offered when the person or persons are distant from you, like what I wrote about yesterday. But what I have come to find out is that the closer you are to a tough situation like the theft we have been experiencing the harder it is to offer grace and second chances.
Everyone deserves a second chance. Sometimes giving those second chances are harder to do than to talk about.
A few weeks ago I posted that I had come across $100 and I felt like I needed to give it away. A lot of people emailed me privately offering great ideas on how to spend the money. I kept praying for the right opportunity would cross my path. Nothing felt right. But eventually two great opportunities crossed my path in which I have supported:
“Our son Aaron woke up this morning crying because his teeth were hurting him again. We recently took Aaron to a dental specialist that we were referred to in Springfield. Aaron has been having major trouble with his teeth. When he was born he quit breathing and was on antibiotics. We think that the antibiotics have weakened the integrity of his teeth. As a result they had to pull one of his teeth that were causing him major pain and he has 16 other teeth that need major attention. They said that if this is not taken care of immediately that Aaron will suffer much more pain and long term ramifications with his permanent teeth.”
If you are interested I would love for you to help support Aaron’s surgery, please visit: www.gofundme.com/blacke and you can also follow the blog from the Philippines trip.
A week or so ago someone posted this picture on Facebook:

Ouch.
But haven’t we all done it? I know that I have blocked aka “hidden” plenty of people on Facebook. I am sure their might be some of you reading this that are apart of my “hidden” list because I really don’t care for politics all that much. Others of you might never read this because you have hidden my posts because you could care less for the religious “mumbo jumbo” that I post.
How many people are you hiding on your Facebook page? 10? 20? 100? Why be friends with them in the first place? This graphic and this idea of hiding people on Facebook is very sobering to me and I found myself wondering how many people have hidden me from their news feed?
It might not seem like a lot to some but $100 can still go a long ways in someones life. Good ole Benjamin Franklin can still change someone’s day, week or possibly even month.

This week I was blessed with an unexpected $100. Honestly I really want to spend it on a race entry fee. I really want to run the Red Rock Half Marathon. But after thinking about it I realized that was pretty selfish. My mind then jumped to the next “selfless” act of spending the money. I could use it to pay for a portion of a ticket for Catalyst West. A conference in California that I really want to attend but don’t really have the money for. Going to the conference would me I would grow spiritually and relationally, that in turn would spill out into my relationships, small group and onto the pages of this website. A win-win for everyone right? Nope, still pretty selfish.
After thinking about it for a few hours I really feel a deep conviction that I need to give the money to someone or something. But honestly I am not sure what or whom. So if you had a $100 to give, who or what would you give it too?
For most of the Superbowl I had my laptop out and Firefox tabs open for both Facebook and Twitter. I was running a pseudo experiment in the the social media feeds. I knew that during the game the status updates of friends and strangers would light up with comments about the game, commercials, etc. After nearly 5 hours of watching the game, halftime show and commercials all in the context of the social media I came up with a list of observations:
In the end I realize there is nothing really the significant about watching the social media stream except to say that most people engaged with the commercials, singers and outside of football stuff more than they did with the game itself. The Superbowl has long been a advertising event and experience to attend or watch but more and more with every passing year it becomes less about football and more about the consumer, because in the end it was all about selling tickets, selling ads and selling you on something other than football.
A while ago I posted some of my favorite places to eat in West Las Vegas. Today I thought I would tag four restaurants my wife and I have enjoyed recently:
4. The Coffee Cup. Okay this amazing little dive isn’t located in Las Vegas, but a few minutes outside of Vegas is the town of Boulder City. Headed to the Hoover Dam? Stop by this little gem! Featured on Diner’s, Drive-ins and Dive’s on The Food Network, this great family run business is known for it’s pork chili verde, but I love everything I have tried on the menu. Make sure to check this place out the next time you want to get away from the hustle and bustle of Las Vegas.
3. Babycakes Cafe. Opened in the fall of 2010 this cafe in Summerlin is cute and friendly but don’t let that fool you, it serves up some of the best breakfast food I have ever had. Known for red velvet pancakes and Rick’s adobo fried rice this restaurant is building a very happy customer base. I can’t wait to go back here with my wife and try something new.
2. Sambalatte. I run a cafe and bookstore 5 days a week so visiting other cafe’s can be interesting. Sambalatte is legit, in fact I dare say it is my favorite coffee shop in Las Vegas, (over my own, shhh don’t tell anyone). The drinks are amazing and the staff is extremely friendly and helpful. I really enjoyed my first visit and look forward to going back often. One thing I really enjoyed is the fact that they utilize social media well with their Facebook and Twitter feeds.
1. Johnny Smalls. For my wife’s birthday she requested that we go to Johnny Smalls inside the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino for dinner. Only open for a few hours at night this intimately small restaurant specializes in appetizers. When we went we were very hungry and our foursome managed to put away 15+ of these bite sized delights! I recommend the all you can eat option. (Hint: have a players card? Saves you $4 on the all you can eat price) My wife’s favorite was the sushi, mine was definitely the chicken & waffles! If y0u live in Vegas or are just visiting I would encourage you stop by Johnny Smalls one night!
What about you? Any new favorites? Any places you think I need to try? I would love to hear your favorites!